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Words make no sense until u match them with your actions.
You keep saying sorry but you aren’t addressing your patterns of repeating the same mistakes. No apologies or anything can heal the other person hurt, get this simple, straight and clear.
Not making any sense.
Get your actions on track…. words will follow accordingly.
Life is simple for people who make it easy for self and for others.🐣
The husband kept hiding inside of his lies, wife was forgiving once, twice, thrice and many times but this man never accepted his mistakes but kept manipulating with all the reasons possible in the world.
One day the wife with two children got the evidence and couldn’t believe that he was fooling her with his sister’s friend.
Gathered herself..!!
Facing a long and expensive court battle against the monster.
He still manipulates but it’s too late….
On paper relationship exists heart has fallen apart.
No apology, no forgiveness.
Just peace 🕊️ and faith 💜
keeping high hopes that this pain will disappear soon.
It’s not what others are doing it’s what we are allowing.
Often blaming others for the hurt they have caused replace it with ‘I allowed them to do so’.
Standing in the space of accountability we see things differently as our perspective changes and we aren’t reacting rather growing.
If they were gentle they wouldn’t hurt.There is a difference between pretending and reality, set boundaries.
Life is simple let’s not complicate it. Keep checking the red flags before it’s too late.
Embrace self respect and peace ✌️
The husband kept hiding inside of his lies, wife was forgiving once, twice, thrice and many times but this man never accepted his mistakes but kept manipulating with all the reasons possible in the world.
One day the wife with two children got the evidence and couldn’t believe that he was fooling her with his sister’s friend.
Gathered herself..!!
Facing a long and expensive court battle against the monster.
He still manipulates but it’s too late….
On paper relationship exists heart has fallen apart.
No apology, no forgiveness.
Just peace 🕊️ and faith 💜
keeping high hopes that this pain will disappear soon.
Thin line’s between the two:
The insecure will always remove all other people from your life in the name of love having fear of loosing you and keeping self doubt – the other person can take away him/her….you will often find them in anxiety.
It is more of a personality disorder.
Jealous people will get defensive and keep thrashing their tantrums/demands looking for approvals from other person in the name of love. Someone often getting angry, operating from looking good- you will often find them in low self esteem.
It is more of a character disorder.
Both are negative emotions…
By the way be watchful one leads to other!!!🐥
Sit down. Breathe. Relax.
No judgements.
Now hear your mom from concern and ask what is that she wants you to be. There is a difference between discussion and debate.
Don’t get into arguments. Stop yourself the moment you fall back In judging. May be you can hear her fresh from ‘NOTHING’
Now decide something together, mutual, respectful for each other and GO AHEAD……
By the way it’s not late..💕 you just have to start..and yes with mom blessings.
Referenced Discussion on Quora
There is saying never argue with fool because first they argue with you and than they bring you to there level and beat you with there experience.
So if you are ignoring these arguments two reasons:
- They are stupid and make no sense.
- The other person who is arguing is stupid and make no sense to your life.
There some times can be one more reason which is hidden like here:
3. I don’t like to confront….because I am guilty so it’s better to call it arguments.
Whatever the case look the above and be at peace.
If they were favorite they wouldn’t be toxic and if they are toxic they can’t be favorite.
Very simple yet the basic boundaries of what to take and what not to in any relationship.
Take baby steps but be firm and clear- No Nonsense for this negativity to linger around, not even for a moment.
There are two roads you can choose one that leads to new beginnings and the other with those repeated behaviors and promises and they are depleting your soul.
Decide whatever you want and accept the consequences and let the faith inspire you.
Who knows that the next breakthrough is around the corner 🌻
Blessings 💕